A happy life?

No one can make you happy. We all have the power of choice.



The roads to a happy life are sadly not straight.
Often times it twists and turns.
Offering choices as you go.
With no guarantees.
But with an open heart;

 Adventure follows with joy.

 The way I see it…

I find that being happy has absolutely nothing to do with the road that we are on.

It is all about the choices we make.

You have to choose to be happy.

No one can make you happy.

Nothing outside of you can make you happy.

You have to choose it over and over regardless of what is happening in your life.

When you do your light shines bright and touch those around you.

The incredible obstacle you face disappears with thought and choice.

You are love.
You are not responsible for other people’s happiness. They are.

All you can do is be you and love as you do.

When people or things weigh you down.

You have to reconsider your choices and choose again.

It’s up to you to be happy and make the best choices for you.

They too have the power of choice.

Live strong.

Love you first and then only extend it out to the world.

If you love others above yourself, your tank will never fill up.

At the end it benefits no one, not even you.

Wishing you love and light



You are love.
Take care of you and be.

How do I love myself?

With ease? Or through others?

Pleasing them instead of me.

Are their needs more than mine?


I chronically worry.

I leave the tiniest room for me.

And yet my longing whispers true, “You are love.

Take care of you and be.”

As I do, so will others.

“Your love flows from the self.

Love thyself and be true.”

I see you

We all want to be seen, acknowledged and validated.

When you are seen in this way – you feel alive.

To see someone, in all the glory of who they are, is to acknowledge love them.

So to everyone I’ve made a connection with I want you to know, “I see you.”

Wishing you Love and Light

Asheka 🙂